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The Four Brahma Viharas: Compassion (Karuna)

The second of the Four Brahma Viharas is Compassion or Karuna.  The word compassion comes from the Latin com meaning “with” and passio meaning “suffering.”  In essence, compassion is extending loving-kindness toward suffering. Compassion comes after loving-kindness, for we need to practice metta in order to extend our love specifically toward suffering.  Compassion is a quality [...]

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Inviting Compassion into our Lives

The “Golden Rule” says we should treat others how we wish to be treated.  The Buddha phrased it several different ways, such as “One who, while himself seeking happiness, oppresses with violence other beings who also desire happiness, will not attain happiness hereafter.”  (Dhammapada 10. Violence)  The Lord’s Prayer reminds us to “forgive us our [...]

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Twelve N’ Twelve – p. 87

“Above all, we should try to be absolutely sure that we are not delaying because we are afraid.  For the readiness to take the full consequences of our past acts, and to take responsibility for the well-being of others at the same time, is the very spirit of Step Nine.”

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Compassion

“Open up to your family.  ALLOW them to show their compassion.  ALLOW them to show they do not judge.  When you open up, you will gain a deep conviction of their love for you.”

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12/15/11 – Happiness by Thich Nhat Hanh

“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”   ““When another person makes you suffer, it is because he suffers deeply within himself, and his suffering is spilling over. He does not need punishment; he needs help. That’s the message he is sending.” [...]

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Constant Thought of Others

The sixth chapter of the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous is titled Into Action. There is no chapter entitled Into Thought or Into Feeling.

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Daily Thought 5/22/13 – Boundaries

“No” is a complete sentence.” -Anne Lamott   “Half of the troubles of this life can be traced to saying [...]

Daily Mindfulness 5/22/13 – True Speech

In regards to Right Speech, most of us have a lot of work to do.  We use vulgar language, exaggerate, [...]

Big Book Quote of the Day 5/22/13 – p. 561 (Appendix I)

“We alcoholics see that we must work together and hang together, else most of us will finally die alone.”

Twelve N’ Twelve Quote of the Day 5/22/13 – p. 120 (Step Twelve)

“Surrounded by so many A.A. friends, these so-called loners tell us they no longer feel alone.”

Daily Mindfulness 5/21/13 – Letting Go

It is in our basic human nature to attach to pleasure.  When we find something enjoyable, we cling to it. [...]

Twelve N’ Twelve Quote of the Day 5/21/13 – p. 59 (Step Five)

“Only by discussing ourselves, holding back nothing, only by being willing to take advice and accept direction could we set foot on the road to straight thinking, solid honesty, and genuine humility.”